Ruby's Dating Profile

Happy Ever After -- Are you onboard?

Get to Know Me

55 Years old. Asian American

Divorced, No Kids

5'5, 132lbs

Masters' degree

IT professional

Fort Lauderdale, FL

About Me

I’m a 55-year-old Asian woman who lives with love, gratitude, and honesty. I'm well-educated, emotionally grounded and deeply caring. I'm laidback, easy-going, I don't sweat on small stuff. I'm fun, loving, independent, spontaneous, also intellectually curious and open-minded about life's adventures. Although I have always been content on my own, I now feel ready to build a happy, loving, peaceful, drama-free companionship with someone special - to enjoy this beautiful life together as true partners.

I moved to the United States from China at 26 for graduate school and have lived here for nearly 30 years. I've became a U.S. citizen and earned two Master's degrees from the University of Miami. I work in Information Technology field for all my career and currently work from home, for a large insurance company. I live in Fort Lauderdale now and I have the freedom to travel when I need. I enjoy walking on the beach, meaningful conversations, good food, reading, exercises, travel, as well as quiet moments at home. I'm hoping to find a compatible life partner to share both the adventures and the everyday joys.

I'm Looking For

I’m looking for a loving, mature, educated gentleman who values communication, loyalty, and family. Someone who is emotional stable, loves life, has a positive attitude. Someone who is ready to settle down for a meaningful, lasting relationship — a true partnership built on love, respect, trust and shared laughter -- with companionship, affection and mutual support for the years ahead. If you’re sincere, caring, and genuinely looking for something real, I’d love to hear from you.

A Clear Intention

I approach dating with clarity and purpose. Coming from an East Asian background and holding traditional, family-centered values, I believe marriage is the most meaningful form of a committed relationship. I've always admired couples who have built dacades of love and companionship together -- It's deeply beautiful about that kind of enduring partnership.

I was married briefly in my early years and have been single for the most of my adult life after that. I've genuinely enjoyed my independence and built a fulfilling life on my own. At the same time, deep inside my heart I still hold a sincere desire for a lifelong union grounded in love, companionship and mutual devotion. I've decided now is the time to find someone to build that shared life together.

I hope to meet someone who also believes in marriage and is genuinely looking for the right partner to build it with. I understand that in American dating culture, many people begin dating without clear intentions, simply enjoy fun time together and see where it goes. East Asian culture approaches it a bit differently, where dating begins with shared intention and a simliar vision for the future. I see dating as a process to understand and evaluate each other's values, personalities, and long-term compatibility through communications and shared experierences. I prefer to invest my time in getting to know someone who has intentions and directions that align with mine.

That doesn't means something rushed, and it doesn't mean we're talking about marrying each other. Rather, It means we take responsiblity on where and how we spend our time and emotional energy. Chemistry and emotional connection are very important to me as well. Dating is an evaluation and building process, it doesn't represents commitment. All it required is having a shared intention and vision to begin the process. If at any point either of us feels we're not compatible, we can part kindly and respectfully, knowing we're each moving closer to the right match. It's the most considerate and responsible appoach, rather than prolonging something that doesn't feel right. I believe the best relationship are formed when both are emotionally ready, communicate openly, with shared values and compatible personalities.

A Quick Note

I take care of myself physically, in very good health overall and consistantly receive excellent results in medical checkups. There is one personal matter I'd like to share openly. A few years ago, doctors identified a lump with elevated risk for BC in my breasts (if left alone), while all genetic tests came back healthy and normal. After careful consideration, I choose to take a proactive approach and underwent surgery with the breast implants. The procedure was successful - Now my breasts look and feel natural, and the surgery reduced my breast cancer risk to nearly zero (compared to about 12% lifetime risk for the average woman).

I feel very fortunate that this was identified early and that I've been able to continue living a healthy, normal life. I'm sharing this transparently so there are no surprises later. Please reach out only if this is something you're comfortable with, so we respect each other's time.

Why I'm Here

Although I've always been an independent woman, late last year I reached a clear and thoughtful decision: I'm ready to build a shared life with a partner for the rest of my life.

I began exploring online dating few months ago. While it offers many opportunities to connect, I quickly realized that meaningful relationships require focus, intention, and emotional presence. The volume of conversations and first dates can easily become overwhelming, and that doesn't reflect who I am.

I'm not a serial dater, and I have no desire to be. I'm looking for one special person -- someone to build a genine, one-to-one partnership with. I believe the most effective way forward is to be very selective and intentional, so my time and energy are invested in someone truly alligned, rather than scattered across countless introductions.

I created this page to support that intention. By clearly sharing who I am and what I'm looking for, I hope to filter out misaligned contacts, and to create space for genuine connections with someone who truely appreciates a woman like me, shares similar values, intentions and visions for the future.

A Simple, Happy Life Together

- Drama-free, peaceful companionship
- Built on Ease, trust, stability
- Chat and share thoughts easily
- Enjoy activities together
- Play, Laugh and have fun
- Feel warm, fulfilling, safe
- Easy joyful flow of daily life

- Respect, Love, care, self growth

December 12th, 2025
Fort Lauderdale

The Process

If what you've read here resonates with you, please introduce yourself through the contact form below (and include a way for us to speak). If we're connected on a dating site, feel free to share your questions and contact information there as well.

If I feel there is alignment, I will reach out for a brief call. If the conversation feels natural and positive, we can arrange to meet in person - perhaps over a meal - and see how we connect face to face.

If we feel good about each other after the first date, we can continue meeting and getting to know each other through shared time together and open communications.

I'm not looking to change anyone over time. I'm seeking somone whose values and charater are already natually aligned with mine -- someone who already natually embodies the qualities I value.

We Are Not Aligned If You:

Are dating casually and not ready to settle down
Prefer short-term or indefinite dating without marriage in mind
Are unsure of what you want or lack clear intention
Struggle with emotional stability or frequently react negatively
Drink or smoke regularly
Are financially unstable or irresponsible

We May Be Aligned If You:

Envision a happy, long-lasting marriage and are looking for the right partner to build it with
Are emotionally stable and grounded
Love life and approach it with gratitude
Have a positive, solution-oriented mindset
Take care of yourself physically and emotionally
Are financially stable and responsible

I Agree with her

Yes, It exists

January 6th, 2026
Fort Lauderdale

PS. My pictures are recent. People I met in person think I look mid-40s. I prefer mental & emotional connection to play a bigger part in building a quality relationship.

CONTACT

Let's Connect

If you feel aligned with what you’ve read here, I’d welcome a thoughtful introduction. If it feels right, we can begin with a simple conversation and take it from there.

Privacy Note
Your information will be kept private and confidential. It will never be shared or posted publicly. I appreciate respectful communication and will reply if I feel we are potentially aligned.