Ruby's Dating Profile

Happy Ever After -- Are you onbaord?

Get to Know Me

55 Years old. Asian American

Divorced, No Kids

5'5, 132lbs

Masters' degree

IT professional

Fort Lauderdale, FL

About Me

I’m a 55-year-old Chinese-American woman who believes in living with love, gratitude, and honesty. I’m well-educated, emotionally grounded, and deeply caring — someone who values warmth, loyalty, and mutual respect. I’m often described as thoughtful and nurturing, yet curious and open-minded about life’s adventures. I have no children and hope to find a loving, long-term partner to share life’s next chapter with.

I enjoy peaceful morning walks, meaningful conversations, travel, and quiet moments that make life beautiful. I take care of myself physically and emotionally, and I believe that love and trust are the foundation of a lasting relationship. I’m laid-back, easy going, I don’t sweat on small stuff. I’m very independent, adventurous , spontaneous and have always been content with singles’ life, but now I think it’s time to find the special person to share life with. I prefer drama-free peaceful companionship, to enjoy this beautiful life together.

I come to the U.S. from China when I was 26 for my graduate school. I’m now a U.S. Citizen and have lived in the country for nearly 30 years. I have successfully completed two Masters’ degrees from the University of Miami. I’m currently working in Information Technology field for a large company. Since I work from home, I have some freedom to travel while working. I have always lived in Miami area but currently living near Fort Lauderdale beach. One of my favorite ways to start the day is by watching the sunrise and walking/running on the beach. Life is precious, I enjoy reading, traveling, exploring different cultures, activities, foods, discovering what life has to offer. I enjoy simple, relaxed, laidback time at home as well. I'm hoping to find a life partner to share life's joy together.

I'm Looking For

I’m looking for a loving, mature, well-educated man who values communication, loyalty, and family. Someone who is emotional stable, loves life, has a positive attitude, a solution-focused mindset rather than problem-focused mindset. Someone who is ready to settle down for a meaningful, lasting relationship — a true partnership built on love, respect, trust and laughter, for the rest of our lives. I value honesty, warmth, sharing, fun laughter and self growth. If you’re sincere, loving, and looking for something real, I’d love to hear from you.

A Shared Life

I prefer dating with a clear intention and looking for someone who share the same values. Coming from Eastern Asian background and holding traditional family-focused values, I still consider marriage to be the only valid form of real relationship. I think it's so beautiful when I see couples that have been married for dacades and still love each other. I had a short marriage in my early years and have been single for the most part after that. Although I have totally enjoyed being independent but there's a part of me deep inside still desire the life-long union built on love and companionship. I'm not interested in casual dating or relationships without direction. I'm dating with a clear intention to meet my future partner and build a shared life together.

My intention is to meet someone who also believes in marriage and is dating with an intention to meet the right woman to build a meaningful, loving commitment -- Not something rushed, but something that grows naturally when two people are aligned. Chemistry and a level of emotional connection is also very important. Dating is a process to evaluate our comparibilities and build emotional connection through communications, and shared time together. I value stability, loyalty, and a peaceful partnership, and I'm looking for someone who shares those intentions. I believe the best relationship are formed when both are emotionall ready, communicate openly, with shared values and compatible personalities.

A Quick Note

I'm in very good health overall and consistantly receive excellent results in annual medical checkups. I workout regularly and try to eat healthy. There's a personal matter I'd like to share openly here. A few years ago, I made a proactive descision after doctors discovered a risk factor in my breasts (which considered 30% - 50% risk developing to BC if left alone). I have underwent successful surgery along with the breast implants. My breasts now look and feel natual, and this operation has reduced my risk of BC to nearly zero (compared to about 12% risk for average woman). I feel very fortunate this was identified early and that I've been able to continue living a healthy, normal life. I'm sharing this transparently so there are no surprises later. Please reach out only if this is something your're comfortable with, so we respect each other's time.

I'm a sincere, genuine person who values open and honest communication, and I'm looking for the same qualities in a future partner.

Why I'm Here

I've always been an independent woman and genuinely enjoy my own company. At the same time, last year I reached a clear decision: I'm ready to build a shared life with a partner for the rest of my life.

I began exploring online dating from December 2025. After a month or so, I start to see it's advantages as well as limitations. While there seem to be endless number of contacts, creating a meaningful relationship requires focus, intention and emotional energy. Women are generally overwhelmed by the amount of multiple conversations and first dates, and it doesn't look to be the most effective way of managing time and energy, and it doesn't reflect who I am.

I'm not a serial dater, and I have no desire to be. I'm looking for only one special person - someone to build a one-to-one partnership with. I figured the most effective way forward is to be very selective and intentional, so my time and energy are spent on people who are truly aligned, rather than get lost in a sea of messsages and introductions.

I created this page to support that intention. By being very clear about who I am and what I am looking for, I hope to filter out misaligned contacts, and to create space for genuine connections. Please take the time to read through this page, and reach out only if you appreciate a woman like me, share similar values, and share the same intention and same vision for the future.

A Simple, Happy Life Together

- Drama-free, peaceful companionship
- Built on Ease, trust, stability
- Chat and share thoughts easily
- Enjoy activities together
- Play, Laugh and have fun
- Feel warm, supported, safe
- Easy joyful flow of daily life

- Respect, Love, care, self growth

December 12th, 2025
Fort Lauderdale

The Process

If you this page resonates with you, please submit your information through the contact form below.

If we're already connected on a dating site, feel free to leave any questions along with a way for us to speak directly.

I will review your information and reach out if I feel there is potential alignment.

If our initial conversation feels positive, we can arrange to meet in person -- perhaps over a meal or drink -- to see how we feel face to face.

For me, real connection begins only after we've spoken or met in person. If we feel comfortable and aligned, we can continue getting to know each other through communications and more shared time together. Hopefully we will build something meaningful in this process.

At any point in this process, if either of us feels we're not compatible, we can respectfully move on and continue our search. I believe this is the most considerate and responsible approach, rather than prolonging something that doesn't feel right.

I'm not looking to change anyone over time. I prefer to meet someone who already natually embodies the qualities I value. I belive the best relationships allow both people to enjoy meaningful time together while being fully themselves.

I will pass if you:

Are dating for fun and not ready to settle down. (I'm Not)
Are looking only for short-term or long-term dating without marriage in mind. (I'm Not)
Are unclear about what you desire/want or lack intention. (I'm Not)
Are emotionally unstable, frequently get upset or complaining. (I'm Not)
Drink or smoke regularly. (I'm Not)
Are financially unstable & irresponsible. (I'm Not)

Let's Talk if you:

Desire and Envision a happy, long-lasting married life , and are looking for the right person to build it with. (I Am)
Are emotionally stable and grounded. (I Am)
Love life and approach it with gratitude. (I Am)
Have a positive, solution-orientd mindset. (I Am)
Take care of yourself physically and emotionally. (I Am)
Are financially stable and responsible. (I Am)

Janurary 6th, 2026
Fort Lauderdale

CONTACT

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I'm excited to hear from you!